My boyfriend is avoiding me, how should I deal with that?

People entering into long distance relationships so often set up a regular time and method of contacting each other and then, when one of them fails to keep it up, everything starts to fall apart. Of course it may be a sign that he is getting bored, but it could just as easily be because he does not always have anything new to talk to you about, or that he is getting stressed by talking to you and then being without you afterwards. Of course there are regular times when you should talk..birthdays, Christmas,things like that, but for now, apart from those, why not suggest to him that you both simply leave messages for each other when and as you want to and if you need direct contact, say so in one of the messages and arrange a suitable time for it? As he says, it is only for another two months and you really have done well so far, but limited contact with each other can be more stressful than no contact for set periods of time and as the time when you will actually be together draws closer, the stress will seem worse harder to tolerate. Try to be a little more laid back about the situation and do not fight..when you are apart and fight you have far too much time, both of you, to think about things and not to make up and the truth is that the only way to know what the eal state of your relationship is, is to be in the same room together when you work it out.